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A friend of mine spoke about his fears about handling others' expectations or perceptions on him. 

He seems to live in the shadow of others, always trying to second-guess how others would interpret words he give or actions he take. 

I offer my brief advice to him as follow: 

"You need to BE SINCERE to yourself"

simple is the best,

do have your own view towards life;

be sincere to your preference. 

someone like to be aggressive; someone like to be diplomatic; someone like simple life - just be true to yourself. We need a happy, but not a fearful life right?

The only bottom-line is don't let others hurt you. As long as you are not doing things that give excuse to others to “attack” or take advantage from you - live according to your own wishes.