明白了

2013/08/11 17:59:48 網誌分類: 未分類
11 Aug

 

這陣子工作不順,其實私人生活也起了波瀾。

 

人大了,我唔會事事埋怨,因為這是沒有用的。我會檢討,亦見到自己很多不是之處。

 

見到有套劇集,說「可憐之人,必有可恨」。我覺得很對。那個可憐的母親,為了生活沒有好好教導親兒,結果他變得大奸大惡。

 

如果覺得自己很可憐,不妨問下自己有什麼可恨之處。

 

我可以告訴你,一定有的。

 

頓悟了,可以如何?想的話,就試下補救,卻要看看,你愛別人多些,還是愛自己多些。我又發現,原來我都是個自私的人,愛自己最多,所以結果如何,可能我已經知道,但人生好有趣意,好多人好多事,每天都在變。 

暫時來說,我靜觀其變,亦處變不驚。

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幪面馬仔
幪面馬仔 2013/09/06 23:37:47 回覆

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Persie
Persie 2013/08/22 21:35:54 回覆

又到傳賓斯馬,你話悶唔悶?當C朗已經操到膨膨聲的時候,賓斯馬仍是肥肥地,證明此子唔够努力。

Persie
Persie 2013/08/22 15:11:52 回覆

chanreborn, you are so right.  We need those players but I am not sure we can get what we want.  Cabaye is not coming but we do not need him too; he’s not the type we need.

 

I’m happy to see Ramsey play a decent game last night.  His shot should have been saved I think, but as an away game against the rough Turks, I think he did well.

Persie
Persie 2013/08/22 15:04:06 回覆

美國債息飚高,我的高息股真的好可憐,我又沒有退市。

說來好感慨,我發覺我自己不買股票還比買股票好!既然這樣,也不必費甚麼心神了。高息股我仍很喜歡,如果侯低買,我覺得沒有所謂,正所謂是用來製造現金流公用股,應該不會執笠吧!

如果換走其他,再加一隻類似公用股,我會選長江基建。

 

我沒有沽出中石化,不過這不用太擔心。幸好走了華創,因為它很,現在更加往下走了。

Persie
Persie 2013/08/22 14:57:52 回覆

soho,我會喜歡這些節目,我會再看,好欣賞超強記憶力的人,我看過mind mapping的書,記憶力似乎可以訓練,但我現在年紀可能太大,訓練都沒有用。 

我好有興趣研究案件,每次我看報紙我會選我與興趣的案件在腦海重溫一下。退休後我估我會去法庭旁聽,找有趣的案件跟進。

chanreborn
chanreborn 2013/08/22 12:27:24 回覆

Persie , Tomato : wenger said in the post match last night that HIS transfer window just opens now till 2 sept...!! So it's whether Arsenal can go through the CL main draw is the critical point for how much money they will spend in the transfer market .. However, how many good and suitable players are still available ? We will see within next two weeks who they will buy , we need at least one keeper, one CB , one MF and one striker!

Persie
Persie 2013/08/22 05:14:07 回覆

David Villa scored for Athletico Madrid !!!!!!!

 

大打爭氣波!

Persie
Persie 2013/08/22 05:12:47 回覆

David Villa倒戈鬥巴塞。Spain Super Cup馬體會對巴塞,兩回合賽制。

 

巴塞穿加泰隆拿區旗顏色新波衫。

 

Neymar on bench.

Persie
Persie 2013/08/22 05:12:30 回覆

Chelsea vs Villa. Villa 先擺烏龍後追平再差些反勝形勢大好。Ivanovic領黃後再犯規球證網開一面但最後Ivanovic入波成2-1,最後車仔禁區手球球證又話冇事,車仔順利取勝。強隊有權有勢有運氣。 

由阿球迷朋友在北京直擊報道(因為沒有阿仙奴直播)。這場他死啦,輸左$900,嘿嘿。

Persie
Persie 2013/08/22 04:57:20 回覆

好消息,阿仙奴 3-0擊敗FenerbahceGibbs, Ramsey, Giroud (penalty)入波。

高斯尼因對手危險動作踢中他的頭,爆血。龍門Szczesny出迎腳下球又被對手的鞋釘拖過頭臉,臉同頸都損曬見血。沙拿上場頭頸落地今日都馬上復出演出勇猛。無論點唔滿意云加我都會支持班球員。

soho*
soho* 2013/08/21 22:59:43 回覆

某部份內容我都覺得好假, 但係講灌輸意念及記憶法是真有其事, 加上我鍾意睇 The mentalist, Patrick Jane 盤問犯人的技巧似十足真人版讀心師的言行舉止, Patrick 查案時最喜歡屈人係兇手, 往往連累Lisbon被投訴, 其目的就係想睇對方的反應, 從而判斷對方有沒有講大話

其實日常社交我地都可以從對方的身體語言中獲得無言訊息

蕃茄
蕃茄 2013/08/21 20:51:17 回覆

Persie,Chanreborn,

睇到開季前, 雲加話手持巨款, 今季要好積極咁前中後三線大增頂尖球員, 吹到又話無限接近買成希古恩, 另一面又話高價買亞蘇, 轉頭又話傾掂左拜仁個防中..  最後, 咩都無.... {#iconb_374}, 開季主場即輸三比一, .....嘔血.  如果今年阿仙奴引援依然似往年, 我決定罷睇,  以示不滿.

Persie
Persie 2013/08/20 21:58:31 回覆

上兩星期看過少少,有些做假感覺,等我得閒再睇下。

soho*
soho* 2013/08/19 21:50:28 回覆

每逢周一晚9:30~10:30明珠台播出型男讀心術, 真人版 The mentalist, 好精彩

The mentalist can hack into people's brain, influence people and implant thoughts

讀心師在兩小時內閱讀300架車的檔案資料, 例如車牌.行車里數.車身號碼.車身特徵....., 再去停車場實地觀察, 並能牢記它們停泊的位置

讀心師觀察你的小動作.身體語言就可猜到你心中所想, 例如側頭代表願意繼續聆聽, 手放在唇邊代表有事隱瞞, 將手放在對方背部代表想凌駕對方, 說話緩慢及結結巴巴可能在說謊

奧巴馬結紅色領帶代表展示力量, 深藍色領帶代表影響別人

政客握手是三文治式, 當大家伸出右手互握時, 政客往往會再伸出左手, 從而將對方的手夾在中間, 目的是限制對方活動

Persie
Persie 2013/08/19 01:15:49 回覆

chanreborn, all your worries are genuine. I think we are in deep trouble.  The selling/loaning out of players seems to me that we are cutting down salaries paid to players who do not get any playing time but Wenger left our resources too tight.

 

Why are Vermaelen and Diaby always injured?  At least Diaby can play CB (yes I know he is crap) but he is forever injured.

 

Hope we still have some luck, that’s the only thing I can do now, pray for a miracle!

 

Why is the transfer fee so high this season? Is it all being inflated by Gareth Bale’s deal?  We sold RvP for 24m GBP and we now need to pay 40m, 50m for another player? Just seems crazy to me.  Panic buying is still possible this season, we can't even say we have absolute chance to beat Fulham.

 

I have grown to like Dortmund a lot.  I think Gundogan is a very decent midfielder and Reus is full of flair, but they cost 24m and 30m GBP respectively, gosh.

 

Chelsea is looking fine, as expected. Lampard is superb!  Barca leading Levante2-0 at the 3rd and 11th minute.  Sanchez and Messi scored.

 

 

chanreborn
chanreborn 2013/08/18 23:38:47 回覆

persie, it's final year of Wenger's present contract so I don't know what he wants to do if no further extension will be made .. He may join PSG next season so there is no further obligation to maintain the top four position this season .. U see the team has sold,released , and loaned out over 20 players and only buy one , free of charge , so far . I already alerted if Vermaelen will be out until Oct so how can they loaned out Djourou and Miquel at the same time without buying another CB (i know both of them are crap) ? don't tell us they will ask Bendtner to play CB if they cannot sell him before closing of transfer window.

Sagna can play CB if one of Kos and Per is absent but now even Sagna is injuried so we cannot have a proper 4 defenders on next saturday noon game which is ridiculous for a biggest London football club!!!  Don't forget they need to fly back on wednesday night from turkey to London on midnight flight so only one day preparation for away game at Fulham , I've already sweating right now!!

we don't know how bad injury of Ox , Ramsey has a bad knock , durability of Rosicky and Wilshere is a worry besides Arteta is out. Suddenly we have found all the central midfielders are in doubt and we only played the first game !!! Jesus Christ !!

We need a CB , a holding midfielder and a striker and do you think what Wenger will buy at the end ? I still remembered two years ago when we were hammered 8-2 at Old Trafford then Wenger bought on the last day including Andre Santos , Park but I don't want to see again after we play Tottenham on 1st sept and then have a panic buying on 2nd sept..

 

Persie
Persie 2013/08/18 21:46:40 回覆

主席,以下的日子會好苦,五臟六腑揦埋一舊架。我估如果揾中醫把脈他會說不如你唔好看英超。 

熱刺憑12 1-0領先水晶宮,打開紀錄易辦事。

慳妹
慳妹 2013/08/18 21:39:36 回覆

舅父仔、chanreborn:你哋一眾阿迷和球迷又要開始捱更抵夜兼且測試自己心臟最高負荷能力的日子!

Persie
Persie 2013/08/18 21:08:16 回覆

AVB係咁鬧我地個香港政府大球場,Vertonghen咪又出得第一場,多餘!

 

唉,好醃悶。 

Crystal Palace龍門剛作出精彩撲救,頂住啊!

Persie
Persie 2013/08/18 13:19:08 回覆

李聯廣,#405我沽出左好多,未買返晒,仍想買返因為覺得派息唔錯,領匯我一早沽晒。 

阿仙奴開季一向唔錯 (純粹係話第一場唔使輸),印像中已有多年未試過輸波,更枉論如昨晚輸波兼損兵折將。

前屆第三週我們位列17位,我在球迷朋友面前說,我們最終一定能夠入前四,我話,如果唔入,都得!當年,RvP還在陣中,令我有信心。去屆我已經不敢如此跨下海口了。

Persie
Persie 2013/08/18 13:18:34 回覆

chanreborn,昨晚個球證我唔識講,得唔得益亂俾,明顯勾腳在面前唔俾,高斯尼第二張黃牌想下才俾。我唔會話他偏幫,因為Szczesny第一個12碼係可以領紅,但他遠離水準。高斯尼第二個碼就過嚴。

 

但不論球證如何我們昨晚是踢得差,差到反輸場波。印像中Szczesny好多次出來如此輸12碼。一對閘折損了,中場顯得疲累,前鋒不見得銳利,我現在好擔憂。

 

高斯尼尚且可打歐聯,但下場聯賽(先富咸後熱刺)打唔到,熱身賽時會用沙拿填補,但現在不知沙拿傷勢如何,用人之際,但一班後衛全賣/借出去了。

 

神化阿迷朋友的阿仙奴對沖基金正式開始運作,昨晚投注$400,贏$200$200,第一注賽前買,維拉贏波7.5倍,第二注等基奧特入左波才買,當時維拉贏波21倍,總計贏了$2450 

你知我悶蛋,冇波唔得,亦懶得周圍找link,而且Now有西甲,今晚巴塞亮相啦!不過Now個曾偉忠不知所謂,Gibbs傷出他以為是高斯尼傷出,又成晚將藍斯當係張伯侖,一白一黑啊大佬,又將Szczesny的名字譯作CC尼,變態。

chanreborn
chanreborn 2013/08/18 10:31:58 回覆

persie, i feel i made a right choice not to subscribe the NOW Tv sports channel...Besides I don't want to give money to LI but also indirect way to vote my trust on Wenger !

Next two home games one is CL qualifier and then against Tottenham so if anything goes wrong , Wenger will be in big trouble !

 

李聯廣
李聯廣 2013/08/18 10:19:10 回覆

Persie, 息升年代,我已全面改變對REITs的看法,短炒倉不會加注,除非跌至收息倉標準。現時短炒倉只有約20%貨,正等待機會走埋果半注#778。

PS 兵工廠好似近幾季開咧都贏唔到波!

Persie
Persie 2013/08/18 02:56:18 回覆

RvP is the same RvP, full of confidence and quality.

Persie
Persie 2013/08/18 00:11:16 回覆

雲加不如你殺左我算啦。

傷兵滿營,我唔知點鬥費倫巴治;希望沙拿冇事啦,他落地個下嚇煞人。

Persie
Persie 2013/08/17 23:50:11 回覆

The worst way to start the season. I feel like a piece of dead meat.

Persie
Persie 2013/08/17 15:36:01 回覆

浪子,嘩,智豬好茅!

由於我曾在$24買入領匯,我是不會在$40再買入它的。

2013/08/16 21:15:19 回覆

佢823的入貨價是近排俾的。佢在$40樓上還是繼續唱好… 說只買不賣… 插左下來先話無加注價值。

Persie
Persie 2013/08/16 09:50:08 回覆

多謝馬仔關心。我一D事都冇,明天開新球季啦,苦戀正式展開!

幪面馬仔
幪面馬仔 2013/08/16 09:14:34 回覆

舅父仔

早晨努力喇,有病就食藥囉,總有方法的。話自己有病的通常不太差。笑吓啦香港人

Persie
Persie 2013/08/16 00:31:28 回覆

浪子,智豬提供 #388 的入貨價是$120#823$33;中規中矩啦。 

華創都係升唔起。中石化若今日放有皮幾賺,都係無放。中華煤氣有八皮賺架,但都係放埋一邊放長線,不知是不是又錯了?

Persie
Persie 2013/08/16 00:24:08 回覆

除了Beck Depression Inventory,朋友說還有個熱戀的Inventory,問我要唔要。我話,你玩嗎?活了這把年紀還說什麼熱戀,除非交了小三。朋友話,用來測你同阿仙奴啊!坐隔離的阿迷朋友搶先答,他那是苦戀,唔係熱戀。  

苦戀,我都覺得好笑。

I really am not sure if I like Suarez but at this point I would say bring him in.

Persie
Persie 2013/08/16 00:23:19 回覆

chanreborn,我掙扎求存至今,已經越過危險線,我唔怕認有病,這是我的好處。但老實說,我是很難相處的人,我曾對我媽咪咪說了很傷害的話,sometimes I do feel sorry for her,真對不起。

chanreborn
chanreborn 2013/08/15 21:00:35 回覆

persie , 唔開心我一定要令己開心,運動是一, 和父毋渴渴茶是另一方法, 我相信每人都有一套令本人放鬆的方法,be frank to yourself which is the vital point , then treat yourself well!!

 

11:15 BST: According to The Daily Star, Arsenal are ready to make an improved bid of £49million for Liverpool striker Luis Suarez. However, SportsDirect News are reporting that Arsenal will actually break the British transfer record with a bid of £51million.

just get it done !!

Persie
Persie 2013/08/15 04:37:27 回覆

就算好乖的在十二點睡覺,都總會在3am or 3.30am醒過來,就如今晚有賽事我都沒有較鬧鐘,只希望自己自然入睡又可睡得好一點。

Persie
Persie 2013/08/15 04:33:37 回覆

GF,我覺得我唔係睇唔開,我怕我自己有病態。如果肯認有病,可以吃藥。我亦曾經食過,是一種超級鬆弛的藥,睡得很好,我估我應該有打鼻鼾,獲得深層睡眠。為何有些人選擇自殺?其實我是明白的。香港彈丸之地,竟有七百多萬人,生活充滿壓逼感,精神出問題的人一定好多,自殺是免不了的社會現象。我覺得自殺沒問題,但自己要看清楚,不要遺害其他人。

 

之前有網友有情緒病要服藥,大家竟叫他用意志克服,其實這是非常危險的,藥係好重要,不可隨意斷藥。想用意志是不想認自己有病,但真的有病就不要相信自己的意志,只是我一點意見,如果他還想活下去的話。  

朋友讀心理學,提起Beck’s Depression Inventory,大家不妨看看,在我自己,任何一日都可以拿17-19 points,已經算marginal case

http://www.thecommunityhouse.org/wp-content/uploads/2012/01/Beck-Depression-Inventory-and-Scoring-Key1.pdf

Persie
Persie 2013/08/15 04:12:42 回覆

chanreborn,其實唔買人一定沒得贏。Soccernet又在煲水說Dzeko and Michu,聽到都起痰,但我唔信買得到。其實我好喜歡德國DortmundReus

Persie
Persie 2013/08/15 04:09:48 回覆

Poldi 出啦!

Persie
Persie 2013/08/15 04:07:39 回覆

有線真討厭,把Portugal vs Netherlands放在155台播,不屬於足球頻道,想打去熱線罵他,又不是24小時熱線,現在沒有人接聽,氣死我。 

德國搞什麼,今晚防線好多甩漏。和確特幫英國追平1-1了!

chanreborn
chanreborn 2013/08/14 22:39:45 回覆

persie , 雲加要買人都要人家賣至得,依家拜仁呀,利记都话之你,看看大家都要胡拉到九月deadline 啦,依家得16-17个人用, 平平安安,无伤无病please!

2013/08/14 15:39:36 回覆

Persie,你說得對,人生好有趣意。人與事每天在變,而且充滿驚喜;你以為前無去路,卻往往柳暗花明。就是憑藉這點點希望,人才能從苦難中回轉過來,然後有勇氣迎接日後未知的挑戰。

 

多點想想人生趣意,盡量忘記計較與得失,就是通達人生的開端!

 

幪面馬仔
幪面馬仔 2013/08/13 22:38:17 回覆

我這小輩都喜歡師父,明白了這劇㗎 {#icons_cat7}

Persie
Persie 2013/08/13 22:20:45 回覆

喜吱吱常說,好想好想,好信好信。

 

chanreborn我地試下,

好想 贏聯賽錦標

好信好信… 贏聯賽錦標

看看能否贏得錦標!

 

我同阿迷朋友講,我地今屆on paper 唔錯。阿迷朋友問,借問你我地今屆除了賣左謝雲奴同簽左免費的Sanogo以及你口中的未來瑰寶Gedion Zelalem之外同去年有咩唔同呢?去年又唔係輸?我話大有不同,Big 3 換晒領隊,曼聯欠playmaker,領隊又唔重用Kagawa; 曼城永遠星光熠熠但撈唔埋;車仔中鋒可能唔夠銳利;熱刺沒有巴爾我就更加不會放在眼內;我地實力平均不過我唔想用Fabianski 

朋友話,dream on! OK!好想好想,好信好信!星期日晚可能想得滯,想錯左,去左van Persie度比佢入左兩球。下次要想得清楚些,哈哈!

Persie
Persie 2013/08/13 22:18:34 回覆

哈哈,同道中人chanreborn,可能只有我們兩個60後在細味這套劇。我特別喜歡肥野,一個有預知能力但又經常非常無助的人。 

那句早晨,用得很好,今世的悲情成了下生相識的緣分。本來好傷感,但立時變得充滿期望!就等我地相信,會有美好的下一世。我寧願相信人生有好多世,在某個世代,我曾經是個很快樂的人。

Persie
Persie 2013/08/13 22:17:01 回覆

馬仔,pplothanks 

主席,已超越了讓步,犧牲,什麼都不是,一言難盡。

慳妹
慳妹 2013/08/12 22:59:13 回覆

人性自私是毋庸置疑,要維繫一份感情就要看願意作出多少讓步。

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幪面馬仔 2013/08/12 22:03:04 回覆

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chanreborn
chanreborn 2013/08/12 01:56:44 回覆

persie , 我久不久都有看“司傅明白了”,我們60後會顿悟,不過後生的80後可能會不欣想, 每个人修为领悟不一,明白就好了!!!

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